
Ok, let me start the other way around:
What i mean by verbal programming is the way our minds were programmed when they were fresh. In other words, when people are newly born, they are introduced to everything, however, their mental and physical behaviour match at some points that they start turning into actions. Those actions stay with those people until their last day. This is verbal programming.
When a child listens to an argument between his parents, when his mom is shouting and his dad is listening: "Where is the f**king money?", " We are poor, we need to eat, we need to get the boy into a school!" Households!! etc..